HOT TOPIC of the day...   From my most recent and highly popular ezines ariticle:

It’s not that we women do not want sex we just want...

This article is not for the faint at heart! 

Read this ONLY if you want the cold hard facts about what
women really want from sex.

Relationship 911 HELP!

Read my new Romance Novel... True Confessions 

You Don't Know Until You're Taught!      

One of the most crucial skills to have:

1) People Skills
2) Interpersonal Skills
3) Relationship Skills

All One In The Same and yet Love is Key
Love What You Do
Love Who You Are
Have LOVE in your LIFE!

Love is the Greatest and most Powerful Reasons we DO!

Let's face it we are a social networking society!

Never before have Interpersonal Skills (Relationships) been so IMPORTANT!

You Don't Know Until Your Taught!

People skills, Interpersonal Skills or Relationship skills
are all one in the same.

It's the degree at which you enjoy great relationships with
other people at home, work or play. 

If you're not great at this it is not your fault. 
There is really no one to blame.
As we learn better we do better.

People skills are learned during the formative years just as
you learn to walk, talk and share toys....

The key to the quality of skills you developed as a child
all depend on the degree at which your parents enjoyed a
healthy and successful relationship.

They are the model from which you learn!

I did not develop good people skills as a child.
I was the second youngest of six.  To cut to the
chase each of us have all been married at least
twice...

Yep, you could say the skills I learned weren't
exactly the optimal kind.

Good news is long ago I realized this and went
to work developing great people skills.  I now
enjoy great relationships.

You could say I have lived, loved and learned.
The key to the learning that launched me into
optimal success was something I stumbled upon
while researching products for my business.

I found T. Dubs an amazing human being who's
mission in life is to improve on our lacking
relationship skills.

His product is The Magic Of Making Up!
What really hit home with me is this...
we all are in a constant state of making
up if you will.  Be it with your siblings,
parents, friends or co-workers we are.

I was intrigued as to how this could help
me learn to maintain loving and lasting
relationships in all areas.

It did and then some!  You just have to meet
this guy to find out for yourself.

Check out this video and meet the man himself.
The Magic Of Making Up!
               

Also check out what these folks have to say
Meet the People!

Bottom line is building good relationship skills
within your personal life creates success that
spills over into work and play with amazing success.

Happy Relationships = Happy Life!




You smell the smoke, hear the crackle of a flame and
start to swoon from the searing heat.

and...

You suspect there's about to be a raging fire.

But the fire and carnage you fear won't be from
any material possessions lost, but from something much
more precious, a once loving relationship going up in flames.

No matter what issue set your fire ablaze, many
of us don't know where or how to begin applying
the water to put the fire out.

In fact...

Unlike a real fire where a fireman first looks to
find, attack and cool the source of the fire (if possible).

Many times attacking the center of the heat is the WRONG approach to take
when trying to extinguish our relationship problems and fires.

For example, let's imagine that since this 'recession'
your relationship has flamed up some worrisome financial fires.

Not too hard to imagine these days?

These may start as little brush fires, small issues and arguments
over how and where money is being spent...or not spent.

Then, maybe because of the heat and pressure of these
financial fires one partner starts 'escaping' more than
is healthy for the relationship.

He escapes into TV, Video Games, Alcohol, Cyber
Porn...or worse?

Now...what do we have?

We've got two fires smoldering away and soon to be a third because
the other partner is starting to feel lonely and isolated.

Can you almost feel the pressure?

Feel it coming to a boil?

Now with three fires off to a crackling start there's
even greater risk of fire and damage spreading to other areas.

So? Just which fire do we put out first?

Our financial fire? Our financial blaze seems pretty tough to
extinguish right now and not likely to die soon.

So maybe we should start with the escapism? That seems
like an easy fire to put out...IF you're not the one escaping!

...and try telling someone that's feeling lonely and isolated
that "they should just snap out of it" is like throwing fuel
into the fire.

So where do we begin when we don't see any
good place to start? And we finally realize that
trying to stomp out all our blazes at once actually spreads
the fire?...FASTER!

The answer is...

Unlike fighting a REAL fire, we start where there
IS NO FIRE.

Yes, start where there is absolutely no smoke, no heat
and no flame.

What we need to do is stop focusing on the problem(s)
and focus on where we still have passion...even if
it's just a little.

Find even the tiniest things you both enjoy doing
together, ACTIVELY put your problems aside and begin to
rebuild the passion between you.

And do you know what invariably happens? Often once you've
rekindled the passion between you...the PROBLEMS will often work
themselves out.

The fires extinguish themselves.

Here's how it may play out using our example;

Tom and Cindy both love cooking together.

They both actively decide to let their problems
go and NOT worry about them for awhile, but to start
by cooking dinner together and EATING together at
the dinner table...EVERY night.

Often because they've had such a great time cooking
and eating together...they play some cards or monopoly
afterwards and share some laughs and have a little fun.

Now, because Cindy isn't feeling so isolated because
Tom's always watching TV or surfing the web...

That little bit of fun turns into love making a little
more often.

Which in part...leads to...

Tom starting to feel better, finds new confidence,
and as his confidence builds... Tom gets more assertive
about finding work.

Soon...

Tom lands what maybe not the best job in the world, but one
that relieves a lot of the financial pressure until he
can find his perfect fit.

And before your very eyes...

Where Tom and Cindy's relationship was about to burst
into flames...

Now, they are rising from the rubble with
a stronger and more fire proof marriage than ever before.

The moral of the story is that with enough PASSION
couples can overcome most any problem including affairs, drug use,
even death in the family.

But when there is very little passion even the tiniest
problems...become big, out of control, blazing fires.

Now if you're reading this, but feel that an out
of control fire has already 'gutted' and put an end to your
relationship. You may find it comforting to know that there
may be a second chance for you?

I've made some amazing new breakthroughs in the human
love, bonding and REBONDING process.

Many of these breakthroughs are just as counterintuitive
as the technique I've just handed you here.

I've made a special video with you in mind where I share
one of my counterintuitive rebonding techniques.

You're invited to watch here: Relationship Conflict

While I'm a little bumbly and no Brad Pitt on camera...

...the video has been watched over 893,000 times (rated 4 1/2 stars) and
it's rare for a day to go by where I don't receive a really heart
warming note from someone that has put their relationship back
together after going through hell and fearing they'd never
find their way back.

Hope it helps you too:-)

T Dub Jackson
MagicOfMakingUp.com (Relationship Conflict)

 
 

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